I am having to learn how to juggle everything now I'm a single parent. I have to look after kids, do housework, cook, feed chickens, work, clearing Ian's stuff, sorting out finances, and finding "me time". Sometimes I am so shattered after it all that by the time the kids are in bed all I have the energy for is to collapse on the sofa with Facebook & TV.
It is getting better as friends have spent time clearing stuff for me and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel as far as the house is concerned. Just have to get Oliver used to not getting so much of mummy as he's been used to and letting Ellie have more of me at other times.
Got lots of friends & family coming to visit over next few months and that helps to lift my spirits.